Don't Tackle Divorce Alone. Talk with a Divorce Lawyer Near You.

Unfortunately, almost 50 percent of marriages in the United States end in divorce or separation. The odds increase based on your number of marriages, with 41 percent of first marriages, 60 percent of second marriages, and 73 percent of third marriages ending in divorce. If you are in that situation and have questions, talk to one of our divorce lawyers near you in our Norristown and Doylestown law offices.

Because laws vary by state, you must talk to divorce lawyers near you who fully understand Pennsylvania laws. Our divorce lawyers serve clients in Bucks County, Montgomery County, PA, and Camden County, NJ. 

Despite the fact laws vary by state, there are the basic steps required for filing:

  1. Meeting residency requirements
  2. Present suitable grounds
  3. File papers and copy your spouse

Apart from that, if your spouse counters your filing, they have a right to present their side. In addition, if you require property or financial support, you'll have to arrange an agreement in an out-of-court settlement or series of hearings. Finally, your divorce may include custody concerns if you have children.

For even more advice, be sure to read the Divorce Guidance section. It provides comprehensive information relating to divorce considerations from our divorce lawyers. You can also gain insights into gray divorce here. Finally, you can learn about representing yourself in Pennsylvania here, but owing to the complexities of a divorce proceeding, it's always best to work with a divorce attorney near you.

What Should You Do If Your Spouse Files for Divorce?

When served with papers from your spouse, you have one year to consent to the divorce; otherwise, you could lose your legal rights. As a result, it's best to consult with a divorce lawyer near you quickly to determine your legal options.

After filing, if both parties agree, you can elect to work with a mediator. Mediation provides a sound alternative when both parties agree the marriage is over and you don't want to hurt either other. Otherwise, your best option is to hire a divorce attorney near you to determine the next steps.

Should either party disagree with the filing, one may still be awarded if both parties have lived separately and apart for at least one year from the filing date. Until October 2016, the requirement was for two years.

A Divorce Lawyer Can Help You File the Correct Forms

Filing for divorce requires a three-step process:

1. Filing the Divorce Complaint: The complaint is a legal document that begins the legal proceeding. You must file that document with a court. Standard forms include the following:

a. Notice to Defend Form

b. Counseling Notice Form

c. Complaint in Divorce Form

d. Verification Form

e. Family Court Cover Sheet

f. Copy of Marriage Certificate

2. Filing the Acceptance of Service: The defendant acknowledges they received the complaint and accompanying forms. It's best to contact a divorce lawyer at this point.

3. Final Form: Pennsylvania has a 90-day mandatory wait period. After its conclusion, you submit the final forms and apply for a divorce decree making it final.

a. Plaintiff's Affidavit of Consent

b. Plaintiff's Waiver of Notice of Intent

c. Praecipe to Transmit Record - a request that the PA county prothonotary transmits all the paperwork to the court in preparation for the divorce decree

d. Pennsylvania Vital Records Form

e. Verification of Defendant's Signature

f. Divorce Decree

g. Defendant's Affidavit of Consent

h. Defendant's Waiver of Notice of Intent

As you can see, there are numerous forms, and they require accurate completion. That's why engaging a divorce lawyer can help eliminate obstacles and make the proceedings more streamlined.


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How Long Does It Take to Get Divorced?

Owing to the mandatory 90-day wait period, it takes a minimum of three months to get divorced in PA. That said, some divorces carry on for two years or more.

Generally speaking, the more you and your spouse can agree to reasonable compromises, the smoother and faster it will go. So as a client, lean on your divorce attorney to assist you with the procedural requirements and deadlines.

Some couples elect to go alone or use online services to reduce costs. In uncontested divorces with little to resolve, that may work. Even then, owing to the complexity of filing, it pays to engage a divorce lawyer near you.

That said, don't cut corners. The costs can get into the tens of thousands for highly contested divorces. But hiring a cheap lawyer won't make your journey any better. To understand why you can read "Nothing is More Expensive than Hiring a Cheap Divorce Lawyer."

Collaborative Divorce

On June 28, 2018, Pennsylvania passed a law encouraging collaborative divorce. The goal of the process is to avoid litigation and eliminate some of the stress associated with the process, not to mention the potentially high cost of legal expenses.

With a collaborative divorce, each party retains an attorney. Those attorneys agree to help the couple settle without litigation. In addition, other specialists like financial advisers, therapists, and child behavior specialists may be involved in the process.

During the process, the parties meet to reach a mutually beneficial agreement. The divorce attorneys ensure any deal meets both parties' best interests and that the agreement is enforceable. Sans an agreement, the parties must hire a new attorney and litigate the divorce.

No-Fault Divorce

In Pennsylvania, you can file for a no-fault or fault divorce. Removed sentence

Both parties wish to divorce and resolve the affair quickly and inexpensively with a no-fault or uncontested divorce. Sans a hearing, you can execute a no-fault divorce swiftly to reduce costs associated with a divorce lawyer and ancillary expenses.

In Pennsylvania, no-fault divorce doesn't require proving your spouse caused the marriage to fall apart. There are two types of no-fault divorce:

1. Mutual Consent: In this most common divorce type, both parties can file an affidavit consenting to the divorce 90 days after the complaint gets served.

During those 90 days, your divorce lawyer may forge a written settlement agreement regarding custodychild supportalimony, and property distribution.

Both parties can sign a separation agreement adopted as an Order of the Court. However, if you cannot agree on issues like the above, the court decides the issues.

2. One-Year Separation Divorce: If one party refuses to sign an affidavit consenting to the divorce, the other party can wait until the separation extends two years. Then, the party wanting the divorce can sign an affidavit presenting the two-year break and the irretrievable breakage of the marriage.

You must, then, serve the affidavit to the other party. The court can then grant the divorce if the second party fails to respond. However, if the second party files a counter-affidavit denying the two-year separation or denying irretrievable breakage of the marriage, the court may declare a hearing. It will then decide if the parties are entitled to the divorce. Again, our Bucks County and Montgomery County divorce lawyers can help you with the process.

Fault-Based Divorce

You must prove your spouse is the responsible party with fault-based divorce. Fault grounds include:

  • Adultery
  • Desertion
  • Conviction
  • Insanity
  • Inhuman treatment
  • A prison sentence of two or more years
  • Indignities intended to create intolerable conditions

In Pennsylvania, fault divorce also extends to a spouse's commitment to a mental institution for at least 18 months before filing the divorce complaint. There is no likelihood of discharge for at least 18 or more months.

A fault-based divorce case requires an evidentiary hearing and a formal finding by the court demonstrating requisite elements of blame. For fault-based cases, you'll want to enlist the services of a divorce lawyer near you. Often, the proceedings can get contentious, and your lawyer can help mitigate issues.

Fault-based are somewhat antiquated. First, a fault divorce is expensive, as both parties must pay attorney fees, the master and the stenographer. Second, the plaintiff must prove wrongdoing. Third, the court may deny the divorce if the defendant proves otherwise.

Looking for Divorce Lawyers Near You?

Our family law firm serves Bucks County, Montgomery County, PA, and Camden County, NJ. So talk to our divorce lawyers near you. They'll support you during this difficult time. They have the experience and expertise in Pennsylvania laws to counsel you appropriately. Plus, our attorneys understand the emotional stress you're likely facing. So they'll view your case from a personal perspective, starting with just listening to your concerns.

Call our local law firm if you need a Norristown or Doylestown divorce lawyer. We'll listen to your concerns and respect your emotions. And we'll help you resolve your divorce as best as possible.

Divorce Attorneys

Mary Cushing Doherty

Mary Cushing Doherty | family law Attorney | High Swartz Attorneys at Law

Mary Cushing Doherty is a senior partner at our firm. As an attorney, she concentrates her practice on all aspects of marital dissolution and family issues.

Judith A. Algeo

Judith Algeo bucks county pa family law attorney

Judith A. Algeo is a skilled family law attorney in Bucks County, PA. She represents individuals in all matters of family law including divorce, child custody, child support, spousal support and alimony, and equitable distribution.

Shari R. Gelfont Williams

shari gelfont williams at high swartz llp doylestown law office

Bucks County Attorney with 25+ years' experience in litigation with a focus on family law, estate planning, and business disputes.

Linay L. Haubert

Linay Haubert | SSDI and Workers' Compensation Attorney | High Swartz Attorneys at Law

A Workers' Comp, SSD, and family law attorney, Linay L. Haubert R.N., Esq. is a former registered nurse and practices out of our Doylestown office in Bucks County, PA.

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